THE IMPORTANT OF BEING APPRECIATED

 I run an active Facebook for the alumni of my high school, Newtown High School in Elmhurst, Queens NY.  It still makes me chuckle that in the early days of my time on Facebook, I joined an alumni group for my year, 1985, and quickly made a post asking if anyone was playing whatever word game I was addicted to at the time.  In those early days, I play games tied to the Facebook ecosystem.  I think it took some effort to play non-friends, or maybe it wasn't even possible.  I already had some friends but they were not playing the word game I was interested in.  So I was looking for new players in an alumni group.  Nowaday, in groups I run that's an automatic decline.  Keep the topic relevant to the group.  Occasionally, I let things slide, perhaps on a Friday evening, but most of the time I run a tight ship.  No spam, no politics, everyone needs to play nice, etc.  We should just reminisce about the good old days, pay homage to some teachers who helped you, better thank them now before they die.  Many people appreciate my work and told me so, but this week two nice things happened.

I am helping to bring about the 40th Reunion of my Class of 1985.  One person, not even from my year, asked me if I would go.  I have to go, I am an organizer.  He went ahead and paid for my admission ticket!  It's over $100!!!  A day later, I made a car trip from Brooklyn to Elmhurst to pick up a bulk order of gym shirts.  The Internet is full of spammers and scammers offering school shirts for purchase.  I keep in touch with the Principal at my high school and according to him only Target is the official sellers of the school's ware.  Or by some stretch, Funky Otter or something.  I know that it's not these fake accounts that lament nobody like their shirts so they come to the alumni group to show the shirt and conveniently list a link.  They usually like their own posts too, maybe to fake activity.  I wish my high school would have an online store for alumni to buy merch but right now the only way to do so is via my volunteer effort.  I would setup a Google form to collect info like what shirt sizes, what colors, where to send the shirts.  When there are enough requests, I send the order to the school and they get it ready in a week or so.  I would then make the trip to pick up the shirts, laboriously pack them for mailing via USPS.  I only charge the school price plus USPS fee.  It's a slow process but the alumni get the real thing, good quality for a low price.  The school subsidizes the cost of the gym shirts and we alumni also reap the benefit.  During this most recent trip (yesterday or Feb 25, 2025), I was given a zippered hoodie by the school as a token of appreciation.  I suppose it has a value of $30 or so.  It is a very nice gesture, thank you very much, Newtown!

MINORITY REPORT - NEW TRASH RULES 2025, I'M LOVIN' IT!

In New York City, the relatively new year of 2025 comes with a few new laws, regulations, etc.  One that affects almost everyone is the requirement of trash bin that has a secure lid.  The idea is to keep trash inaccessible to rats and other undesirable creatures.  Technically, the law went into effect in late 2024 but enforcement starts in 2025.  I was already using a bin with no lid.  I have the separately smallish bags of garbage for each day of the week kept in said bin.  I had some makeshift cover that wasn't rat-resistant.  Being the reliable citizen that I am, I already used the new bin as soon as I received them.  I also started using large trash bags to hold the smallish bags.  Now, here is why I consider the new trash rule worthwhile to add to my "Happy Jar" of 2025:

Much as I like seeing the discontinued use of single-use plastic shopping bags, the law created a problem for me in the kitchen.  Some wasteful people may actually throw away the plastic bags after lugging home grocery.  Not in my household.  We use them to hold trash in the kitchen and for the longest time we didn't need to buy trash bags.  Sure, some days we need two shopping bags to hold the waste generated, but most of the time one bag did the job.  No more single-use shopping bags means I have to find new ways to hold the trash in the kitchen before it goes outside.  I ended up buying kitchen trash bags and also have a limited supply of single-use shopping bags.  The ban of single-use shopping bags does have some exception so a trickle of such bags still finds its way into my kitchen.  To make the limited supply lasts longer, or at least so that I don't have to buy kitchen trash bags too frequently, what I can do now it dump the bags' content into the large trash bags inside new bin.  Coupled with another new, favorite law of mine, Organic Materials Recycling, my trash now is not as plentiful as before.  Each kitchen trash bag or single-use shopping bag now can be used at least three times.  I must be in the minority, as the typical person I talk to about these new laws is angry about having to spend more time with trash etc.  It seems most people don't care enough about their surrounding and just want to do whatever is most convenient for them.

MY OWN FAUX LITTLE FREE LIBRARY

For a long time now, I want to host a Little Free Library.  Usually it's a wooden box in the shape of a house with a clear door.  Inside one would put books, free for the taking.  Ideally, others would add books to it.  "Take a book, share a book."  Of course, some people would just take and not give, but it's the hope that in the long run things balance out.  An official Little Free Library would be registered with the organization, be assigned a charter number, and be included in the organization's web site, so that people can find you.  I admire people who are good at carpentry and build one.  Or people who buy a kit and register them.  I am not sure if I can sustain the supply of books.  In the end, around November 2024, I took the plunge and built a ghetto version of the LFL box.  It's just a milk crate of sort attached to an I.V. pole.  At one time, in my house someone needed a daily I.V. drip, for plasma perhaps, with a visiting nurse.  When the treatment was over the I.V. pole was used to hang wet clothes on.  Now it is the base of my LFL, which I call "faux LFL" because I don't plan to register it.  I already volunteer much time with my local Buy Nothing group, as well as regularly checking the Buy Nothing app and Next Door app about people giving away books.  I have some success with getting books from neighbors but something even better happened today.  I happened to notice that there was a book for the movie Thelma and Louise.  It was a screenplay about the movie.  That definitely wasn't there before.  I went inside the house to do something else, when I came back out there were three books by James Patterson.  You know, that policeman in the Washington D.C. area.  Wait, maybe Patterson writes about other characters, too, but that's the first thing I thought about.  My faux LFL is getting participation from the locals!  That's the best case scenario.  I add some books, people take some, hopefully to read or to put in other LFLs, people add some, things get moved around and hopefully enjoyed.  Yes, one minor, but good, problem I have lately is I do find books I think I will enjoy so I took them, now my To-Be-Read pile is getting higher and higher.  I was reading Book 1 of Isaac Asimov Foundation series, but then I found the book Dad Jokes Too (Two, get it?).  I don't know where the Jokes book went so I probably will go back to Foundation.  Among the pile is Motherless Brooklyn, The Hurt You Give, and The Time Traveler's Wife.  Anyway, hope the flow of books keep going, no books get trashed, and people enjoy books.  Should you want to visit my fLFL, it's on Bay 40th Street in Brooklyn, NY near 86th Street, look for the huge tree.  Remember, take a book, share a book.

HAPPY JAR 2025

 For the New Year (2025), I am going to try the idea of collecting happy weekly notes in a jar.  Failures and disappointments affect me more than they should, I think having happy notes will balance things out.

I consider Sunday January 5 to be the end of the first week of 2025.  The happy note will be about the re-discovery of my iPod Classic music player.  I love listening to music but haven't done much of it lately.  Sure, I have a sizeable collection of music files on my cell phone, but with all its notifications the listening experience can be interrupted.  My first music player was actually one of those iPod with FireWire connection.  It served me well but one day a leftover dish of spaghetti meatballs spilled and killed it.  It was not that healthy at that point anyway, the battery didn't hold well.  Plus, I think I already had an iPod touch.  The iPod touch was basically an iPhone without the phone functions.  It too eventually wouldn't boot up any more, I still have it somewhere around the house.  One holiday season, I decided to treat myself to an iPod Classic, bought it in person at the late TekServe on 23rd Street near Sixth Avenue.  Used it for a while then somehow I decided to just use my phone instead.  Many years later, the current phone's Lightnight connection is finicky and I can no longer easily sync with a computer.  I think it may be possible to sync wirelessly but I don't remember what needs to be done for that to happen.  It doesn't help that my Mac is old, too.  What got me really interested in the iPod Classic is that through my work with running a local Buy Nothing group that has a regular in-person meeting, I end up with an expanded collection of music CDs.  I also have some music CDs from my sister and brother.

The first thing I tried to do was to connect the iPod Classic to my Windows 11 Lenovo laptop.  It has plenty of room and is newer than the poor Mac.  Installed iTune sometime ago, now is the time to put it to work.  Nope, it didn't happen.  Either the iPod Classic need to be updated, something or other, it seemed to be too much work.  Back to the Mac, luckily it recognized the iPod easily.  Hooked up an external disc drive and away I went.  I already imported a few CDs via iTune on the Mac and enjoy them on the go.  One minor issue is the iPod has no built-in speaker so I need to have a headphone handy, or an auxiliary cable to connect to the car stereo or external speaker.

I shall title the first Happy Jar 2025 note "Re-acquainting iPod Classic".  Happy New Year!